Emotionally Focussed Therapist
Connections and healthy boundaries for everyone
Connection and boundaries for everyone
My mission is to heal trauma within people and between people in relationships. My vision is that Emotionally Focussed Therapy, EFT, is for everyone. Whether you are in a relationship or not, whether your relationship is going well or not, everyone benefits from experiencing and naming emotions better. To connect more with others, without losing sight of your own limits.
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My name is Aukelien van Abbema and I have been working as a psychologist since 2005, since 2011 as a GZ psychologist (a registered, licenced counsellor within the Dutch system of mental healthcare called the BIG register) in my own practice. I also write and speak about relationships, connection and healthy boundaries. I also provide training on personal growth and leadership. In addition, I help leaders of churches and communities to pay more attention to the single people in their midst.
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I am qualified and registered as a GZ psychologist and as an ICEEFT registered EFT therapist, working both with couples and inidividuals. Help with me is reimbursed by insurers if there is a referral and a diagnosis. I work on a refund basis. Everyone is welcome, religious or not. You can register via the contact form. I work according to the principle 'short if possible, long if necessary'.