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counseling .

As a psychologist I work in a clinical setting currently. I have given up my private practice. 

Singles

Singles Coaching

One of my specialties is coaching singles who are looking for a relationship. If you get stuck in this for a long time, it can be nice to discuss the process of dating and entering into a relationship with a professional. Most singles were helped in five to eight sessions. They experience pleasure in dating again. They also indicate that they have more realistic expectations of a relationship. Moreover, they experience a grip on the situation again. 

Practical information.

For updates on the waitinglist time please check my waitinglist page. You can register via the contact form or by requesting a referral from your GP (via ZorgDomein).  

Location: 

Drijbersingel 51

4e verdieping, kamer 21

8021JB Zwolle

  BUSINESS DAYS

MONDAY AND THURSDAY

9:00 AM - 5:00 PM

ADDRESS

BLOMENDALSTRAAT 7

8011 PJ ZWOLLE

Counselling

Couples Counselling .

Just to let you know you did an amazing job on our marriage. A. is slowly recovering from his depression and started working again. You helped us to recognize our emotions and talk through them instead of avoiding them. Our sexual life has improved too much. Things are starting to fall into place.  We are so thankful for your help in a time we really needed it.  E and A (32&38)

Qualifications
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My Qualifications & Experience .

As a GZ psychologist I graduated from the University of Amsterdam in clinical psychology. I also have a master's degree in Christian philosophy and philosophy. In addition, after a number of years of work experience, I followed the two-year postgraduate training to become a GZ psychologist. Since then I have my own practice as a GZ psychologist. I also worked for a number of years at De Hoop GGZ addiction care and at Eleos GGZ for children, youth and adults, in both BGGZ and SGGZ. In the past ten years I have mainly followed further training in the field of EFT couples therapy. More about this can be found on the  ICEFT website  or in Sue Johnson's book  Hold me.  

I also specialize in working with singles who want a relationship. I have written several books about this: Single in the Church and Meaningful Dating . Both are also available in English, and Zinvol Daten has even been translated into Hungarian.  

Qualifications and Confidentiality

  • I am registered as a GZ psychologist in the  BIG register under number 69914084325. The BIG register is intended for all health care professions, so that patients can check whether a professional has followed the correct training.

  • I am registered as an EFT therapist with the EFT association .  

I am a member of the LVVP . I am also associated with this in the event of complaints, in order to be able to engage a confidential counselor for mediation, both for myself and for my clients. More information about this can be found on the website of the LVVP.  

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