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writing .

When I write, I understand it myself. I like to write. I would prefer to write all day, but there must also be something to write about. So I read, I teach and I speak, and to organize my mind I write down what I have learned. I have published three books, two of them are also in English, and one is even in Hungarian. I also write countless blogs and columns, a selection of which can be found on this website. If you have a topic you'd like to read more about, let me know! Read more about my books below.  

Date toDate
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Dare to Date 

'It's Complicated'
Matters of the heart always seem to be. But dating in the church? It can be even worse.

Rediscover how to date.

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Single in Church

Single in Church both validates singleness as a complete and whole and potentially happy place to be in, and it points to how a culture of healthy dating is possible in church.

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Singles Counseling .

If you feel stuck in being single and want help finding fun in dating again, I can help you out.

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Couples Counseling .

Falling in love again is possible! Clients tell me so over and over again. Just click the button  below to find out how.

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